3 Lessons:
1. Yes lives in the land of No.
I am reading “The Prosperous Coach” by Steve Chandler and Rich Litvin.
There is a discipline I currently practise: Maintain Innocence in Getting Yes and No.
2. “Maybe someday” does not serve me and the client
It feels good to build on a “Maybe”, but what if “someday” never comes?
Living life on a “Maybe” means living in an illusion.
3. One Step at a Time
It is fast pacing, noise-filling world.
There are moments that feel like
not catching up with peers,
drowning with expectations,
and being overwhelmed by orders.
These moments seem true,
but it does not define your truth.
You always have the
resource,
time,
space
and choice.
So, give yourself a breather.
One step at a time.
2 Experiences:
1. Marvel’s Announcement
I screamed at every trailer released by Marvel.
Hyperventilating with what’s coming next, from Phase 4 to 6.
What I learn from Marvel, is how they set Phases as storytellers.
It brings great reflective questions:
If your life played out in Phases, where are you now? And where are you heading to?
Yet, bad news on Thor: Love and Thunder. It is not going to screen in Malaysia theatre.
So, let’s just wait another month to watch on Disney +.
2. Singing with the champion of Super Diva
I have no clue who is the big deal Chilla Cha is. I experienced her as a formidable woman who slays and says as it is to your face.
That’s who Chilla Cha is to me in real life.
I gain a new coaching role model from this experience.
Storytime: (long version. it is okay if you skip this.) I state my purpose for being in the workshop: “I am an untrained vocalist. I simply love singing. Performing on a deadline, 30th July 2022” She nodded: “That means we only have one week left. Let us explore how I can support you in this short time we are together.” I start singing, and she listens attentively. She has a lot of pointers, however, did not speak much. Only focus on one thing: Be fun! Instead of pointing out all my errors (there are a lot), she sings together with me. Immediately, I can feel her vibration with the song. She sings with such joy and affection. All I can experience is having fun. I left the workshop with so much value. I might enrol on the course, with the intention to explore different coaching styles and my own enhancement of cultural practice.
1 Life:
Went to Pulau Perhentian with fiance for a working trip.
I have lived, purged, and charged.
With Love,
Paggie
PS: I am sorry for posting on Saturday when it is a Friday newsletter. Hope you enjoy today’s reading. Please direct message me, I am open to feedback.